Confused ?????????????

'U R SO CONFUSED' / "WHY R U SO CONFUSED?" This is what people tell me. I am always confused but sometimes i feel people themselves are confused & they make you more confused. Sometimes they say something & then they say something. In an example of a career they say remain focus on one but then they only say that the other career option is much better or has a good scope, now won't the mind get confused & then when you choose some other career , there are so many options in the career you choose. There are so many sub parts that you dont know what to choose. Then why won't the mind be confused. If you want us not to be confused then give us limited option (which i doubt will be possible) or just guide us & let the decision be OURS instead of listening to others & telling us what to do & STOP saying everytime why r u so CONFUSED. Even if the person is not you will try & make him. You need to understand the person & clear the confusion. MAy be the person is thinking something else or something is going on in his/her head so that does not mean the person is confused. It's just you don't understand the person however close you are to him/her (how much ever you claim that you understand but you don't).